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State of the Dress Code
Eight years ago, you’d see exactly two options for vice president and speaker’s tie…red or blue. Tonight, check it out…Biden in bright lavender and Boehner in apricot. It’s nice… (Feb. 13: Daily Beast notes pastel ties at State of the Union)
Today’s Mail
Look what was waiting for me in the post today! I’m so excited…watch for reviews!
2012 – Thank you, and Year in Review
2012 sure was an eventful year for my little blog! A highlight of course was being quoted in the New York Times Magazine this August (What’s So Bad about a Boy Who Wants To Wear a Dress? ). August 8, the day after that story … Continue reading
Posted in Masculinity, Parenting, The space between, Theory, Uncategorized
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All I Want for Christmas Is for Everyone That Knows My Kid to Read This
Just in time for Christmas! Dr. Edgardo Menvielle gives all you parents of gender-nonconforming kids a clear, succinct, to-to-point explanation you can print out and stick right in your holiday cards! (I made a PDF version for your convenience at … Continue reading
Aisle 4
Seen as I walked through grocery store last night — Where is the sticker book for kids who want robot fairies? Queen aliens? My kids (girl and boy) would love most of these — though notice how girls are told … Continue reading
The Annual Halloween Dilemma
Several of you have written me asking me to write about Halloween costumes. I am just back from five days away at a conference (I will share some about my paper soon!) so I am behind at work, but wanted … Continue reading
Posted in Clothing, Gender complexity, Holidays, Parenting, Stereotypes, Uncategorized
Tagged advice, costumes, Disney, gender stereotypes, Halloween, non-conforming, parenting, princesses, Samhain, sexy
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Why isn’t he dressed like a boy?
Shortly after my last post, I took my kids off on a trip to eastern Tennessee — our ultimate destination was a homecoming service at a church where my mother had been a child. But I didn’t figure I could … Continue reading
Posted in Gender complexity, Parenting, Personal, Uncategorized
Tagged boy or girl, church, Oak Ridge, Oak Ridge Children's Museum, passing, Tennessee
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Alvin Ailey Action
Aisha Mitchell and Antonio Douthit, photography by Richard Calmes A recent dance still posted on the Alvin Ailey American Dance Theater’s Facebook page. (And if you’re never seen the Alvin Ailey troupe in action, make a point of going to … Continue reading
Men in skirts
New Buzzfeed article (translated from German) about a dad who wears skirts in solidarity with his five year-old son. My favorite line is a toss up between: “You only don’t dare to … Continue reading